Communication

It is very important to consider in each and every scenario you find yourself in, what the appropriate form of communication is. I find that it's mostly intuitive, but still valuable to step back and evaluate the situation before deciding how you want to communicate. Sometimes we find ourselves communicating in personal relationships in ways that would be unprofessional in the work-place.
It is also important to know your employers and coworkers and be able to pick up on nonverbal ques in order to decide how to communicate in a given scenario.


It is not just things people say, but things like body language, facial expressions, and posture that reflect what your listener is thinking, and thus how to communicate better. Communication is not always verbal, and can take place by other means of communication which do not really allow for non-verbal conversational ques. Equally as important as being able to convey things in an articulate and appropriate manor is having the ability to be a good listener. Conversations should not be one sided, so by listening well, you gain more. It is also recommended to ask good questions because it reassures that you were listening. When talking to a friend it might not be expected that you remain formal and alert. However, when talking to someone like an employer, it is crucial to communicate well because your communication skills will directly reflect your boss's opinion of your utility and ability to collaborate with those around you.


The relationship you maintain with your employer and coworkers is not typically overly personal, and therefore it should not be treated as such. I can apply these ideas by giving my employer 100% of my attention when spoken to, and keeping things that don't belong at work out of work-related conversations. That's not to say I shouldn't tell my boss anything about myself, but there's a time and place for everything, so I'll avoid letting it affect my work. I'll carefully ask for help when I need help, but be sure to listen and make an effort to understand when my questions are answered. I'll have clear and concise questions as well, because this will play a role in my boss's opinion of me. Every scenario is going to be different so it is best to be tactful in communication efforts, and most of all pay attention, because the key to being a good conversationalist is not just being able to talk, but to listen.